Dear Ladies: Guard His Heart

We hear a lot about how we ladies should guard our hearts and we tell men a lot to guard women, but how often do we think about guarding the hearts of guys? I know we tend to have general boundaries, yet I think now would be a good time to remember to set our […]

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Beloved, Let Him Go

Just a little confession: I am in no way an expert at this. I have loved and I have lost and I have spent months and years in an emotional limbo, hopelessly stuck in a place I don't even think I want to move on from because it's the only place I can still find […]

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It’s Christmas and Everything Seems Dark

“Why are there no lights out?” It’s early December and I was pouting to my brother how everything is as Christmas-sy as it should be except the new city mayor decided not to waste money on lights and decors this year. A few days after that, we were on the drive home when he complained […]

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I Want To Get Engaged Too

You guys, I’m not kidding. Two men got down on one knee to propose to two of my friends last week and while I deeply rejoice with them, I can’t get out of my head the fact that life is quickly passing me by. It’s surreal to think that we went from talking about wedding […]

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Bro, Don’t Me.

Based on a thousand true stories of malilinaw na malabong usapan, though not one of them mine. Rather, these are the collective thoughts of males and females alike who are close to me and have been in such circumstances before.  Let’s make it clear before this gets too far. Like a puppet-master with a string, […]

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Is It Really Wisest To Wait?

“It is wisest to wait.” How many of us have heard this, have said this, time and time again? Wait. Until you’ve saved enough money. Until the window of opportunity opens. Until you’re ready. And I agree, I really do. However, though this may sound contradictory, I think this advice can be mistaken too. Please […]

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This Is Who You Are

Take a long look in the mirror right now and tell me what you see. Hips too thin, waist too fat, arms too flabby. Look closer. Tell me what you see. Eyes too far apart, nose too flat, acne scars too deep. Closer. Look deeper. Don’t you see what I see? There, right there, swimming […]

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